1)
ATTITUDE
If you don't have it,
you can't flaunt it. The best flirts are risk takers with an unshakeable
confidence.
2) HUMOR
A must-have.
One of the core elements of a relationship is the ability to make
the other person laugh; be it "at" or "with" you.
3)
BELIEVABILITY
You have
to believe you're a great catch or no one else will. Period. If you
don't think you're worth it, you've lost the game before it's begun.
4)
ASSERTIVENESS
Approach
someone and start a conversation. And no, you don't have to be a
male to make the first move. Welcome to the 21st century.
5)
ACCESSORIZE
Not with
jewelry or matching shoes, but with conversation starters like dogs,
a good book, or a signature scent that's bound to attract attention.
6) APPROACHABILITY
Nobody
likes an ice-queen, or king for that matter. Force yourself to let
your guard down and you'll make yourself more approachable.
7)
EYE CONTACT
Don't stare
the other person down; simply give them the attention and respect
they deserve. BONUS: Direct eye contact also shows confidence!
8)
FUN FACTOR
Nothing
says "comfortable" like a person who is willing to "let down their
hair" and be spontaneous and goofy. It goes back to that humor thing!
9)
SINCERITY
If they
are truly interested in you, they will want you to feel comfortable
being the "real you". Don't be afraid to show a little vulnerability.
10)
SMILE
Not only
does it show you're enjoying their company, it's contagious, and it
makes you a hundred times more attractive and approachable!
