Trisha is a single mom in Racine, WI, and loves to flirt with men at the grocery store.  She zeros in on the produce section where she is convinced she can find a man into healthy living who enjoys frolicking amongst organically grown tubers. 

"I think it is very important what we put in our bodies," she said.  "How could I put him into my body if he doesn't care what he puts into his?"

Trisha illustrates a great flirting technique called using your surroundings.  As the saying goes, you are the company you keep; as such a man is where he frequents. 

Put thought into your flirting location and you are likely to find someone that is into the same things you are - or at least someone who finds them just as important.   If you want to snare someone who's into keeping healthy, then be like Trisha and flirt in the health food section.      

Maria in Detroit, Michigan, comes from a strong Ukrainian family background and likes a man that appreciates her cultural heritage.  She volunteers at a local Ukrainian community club that puts on folk dances and other activities. 

"In my opinion if you want to find someone of the same cultural background" she said, "the best places are community events and ethnic festivals."

Use Maria's great flirting tip to your advantage.  If you know someone at work that is heavy into something like a Ukrainian background and there is a large Ukrainian community festival that weekend, then what a surprise it will be if you "just happened to show up" because their culture interests you?  This tip should work with any culture, and you'll be halfway to painting Easter eggs (also a famous Ukrainian tradition) with Maria in no time at all. 

Paulette is an advertising executive in Nashville, TN.  She likes to work the sex
appeal angle when flirting and does so by wearing form fitting complimentary clothes, like tight white shorts and tops.  This naturally draws in men, but she's not done.  She purposefully wears a look that says she needs some help.  Let's listen to what this virtuoso has to say. 

"To begin flirting, I act like I'm not quite sure about something... like I'm lost," she said, coyly.  "It is amazing how many men use this
as a cue to come over and ask me if there's something they can help me with."

Paulette uses a one-two combo of sex appeal and what we call the "damsel-in-distress" technique.  It doesn't have to be something major like a fire or the car won't start, it can be as simple as not knowing where the creamer is for the coffee.  Men love to help women because it makes them feel, well, like real men.  So to all of the ladies looking to land a man, we suggest taking a page from Paulette's notebook.  Just act like you need help.  A helpful man is sure to come to your flirting rescue.