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a buyer for a top New York fashion designer in Manhattan,
New York. She is looking for a person who is into fashion.
However, her problem is most men she encounters in her business
"I guess it goes with the territory," she mused.
"But, most guys in the fashion business tend to be
gay. I have plenty of gay guy friends, but not many straight
guy friends". Help me flirting.com."
Well, Victoria, our advice is to go where the real men
go: sporting events come to mind. Why not, as a total change
of pace, go buy yourself tickets for you and some of your
friends (straight or gay) and tailgate a Jet's game!
Now, pay close attention to any man that will seem well
dressed for the occasion. Tip: Look for good taste in shoes
and watches, since they are likely to be wearing standard
team logo attire. The accessories will indicate what fashion
they don when not reveling in the manly man heaven called
a football game.
a proctologist in Arlington, VA. He complains that that
he deals with "assholes" all day long. All kidding
aside, he is looking for a woman that he can really open
up with, but is not sure how to go about flirting. After
all, given the nature of his "introspective" work,
flirting is not only inappropriate but also potentially
"What can I do? People don't like to sing Blue Moon
when we are in the middle of an examination," he joked.
"People simply want to get it (exam) over with as soon
as possible and then they are out the door."
Claude would do well by staying in close touch with a professional
association or similar group outside of his job. Like minded-professionals,
especially those with their own practices, will find his
line of work, less uncomfortable to talk about than if they
were patients. Therefore, sometimes, if you stay within
your work profession for flirting opportunities, it can
work just as well as working outside of it.
Joe is a union ironworker in Pittsburgh.
He works a very dangerous job climbing bridges and tall
structures. At the end of the day, he wants to smoke pot
to unwind and throw down boilermakers with his fellow crew
"Most women I flirt with are a little
too butch for my taste," he said, sighing. "I
guess it is the bars I hang out at with my friends."
Problem is I am too tired to go anywhere when I have time
It sounds like Joe is not seeing the building
for the I-beams. He just said he goes out every day after
work and drinks and does drugs with his pals. He needs to
cut back on his unproductive and unhealthy after work activities
and build up the energy to go somewhere different, like
a park, to meet someone that might actually help improve
his lifestyle, versus encourage it.
Doug is a
life insurance stiff in Memphis, TN. He describes his job
as "boring as watching paint dry, but it pays the bills."
In his spare time, he auditions for commercials and works
part-time as an extra for a casting company that helps find
extras for movies filmed on location in Memphis. He played
"guy # 5 walking down the street" in the movie
"The Firm," staring Tom Cruise. He frets that
nobody notices him when flirting.
Doug is his own worst enemy. He dotes on his
boring full time job, but Doug is much more than his actuary
tables. He needs to see his full worth. So do you if you
tend to define yourself by your nine to five. There is so
much more to life then work. It is up to you to decide if
you "work to live or live to work," as the saying
goes. We live to flirt.
Jen in Jacksonville is
very introspective and this often times causes her to feel
down about stuff. Worse, she wants to dump all her unhappy
feelings on a guy.
"I like to have a man as a sounding board,"
she said. "I mean... I want a man to listen to what
I have to say."
Our advice to Jen is that her approach might
be okay if you were married to the guy. After all, men pretty
much have no choice by then. But, flirting-wise, you are
not going to have any success. Flirting is about staying
positive and most guys will avoid the "sky is crying"
Jill, a technology
analyst in Brea, California, is extremely busy and never finds the
time to flirt with anyone, even at work.
"I guess I want a want a man that is
just as busy as I am," she joked, "But the problem
is that if they are just as busy as I am, then how would
we have time to even flirt with each other? It is a no win
There is hope for Jill and all the other workaholics
out there. You simply have to make flirting a priority in
your life. Remember, all work and no play makes Jack (and
Jill) a dull flirt. So our advice is when you sit down to
schedule your hectic life, make it a point to "flirt
three times" during the week, wherever and whenever
those opportunities present themselves. Do not put a specific
time to it; just make it a task to flirt.
Carson is a field and track coach in Scottsdale,
AZ, for high school boy's team. He is into competition and
health. He loves flirting attractive and healthy women into
joining him for an occasional run at the stadium.
"I don't like stay-at-home couch potatoes,"
he told Flirting.com. "I like a woman who keeps up
with me running the steps down at the track."
He describes his sure-fired flirting technique
of approaching women who look athletic and asking them if
they would be interested in participating in one of the
charity runs he sponsors. He said it tells him two things:
1) they like to stay in shape, and;
2) they have a good
heart. Sometimes it works, he says. Sometimes it doesn't.
More often than not, it works.
Carson is wise in that he uses his flirting
as a screening method. He can easily deduce if the women
is even worth his trouble in the long run. Ah, the long
run, something Carson is highly into, which also reminds
us of a good point about flirting. Don't get winded early
and give up, because when it comes to flirting, the tortoise
Jack in Austin,
TX, is huge Johnny Cash fan and spends all day strumming
his guitar in the hope that one day he, too, will hit the
big time. He also likes Hank Williams, Sr.
"I want a lady that appreciates good
country music," he said, with a charismatic grin. "Not
this Shania Twain crap... I'm talking old school country."
Jack is obviously looking for a down to earth
cowgirl that likes to enjoy the roots of early country music.
This tells us that he is not into the latest fads or hip
trends, but likes tradition. One is best advised to flirt
with a man like this by appealing to his sense of tradition.
For instance a gal might ask him to a square dance.
Brad from Chattanooga, TN, is very serious
when it comes to flirting and does not flirt lightly. When
he meets woman he clearly plays up the troubled image, the
scoundrel who never met the right woman, the bothered artist
whose vision of the world nobody ever fully appreciated.
Whatever gets his flirting going is okay by
us. However, be forewarned. Some people define themselves
by the chaos in their lives because it makes them feel more
alive in a perverse way. We all know someone that seems
like they have to have some kind of disaster in his or her
life. It is almost as if they wish it upon them. We say
avoid such people. In Brad's case, it may only be act, but
still, pulling a Van Gogh and mailing your severed ear to
a lover, is not a great flirting move. And Brad just might
be thinking along similar lines. If you are too, don't.
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